what is the requirement be lovers??

This is something that flash through my mind yesterday~~ recently I been thinking a lot about romance~~ how to be a perfect lover?? why is it relationship so fragile??

ya, I still can't find the answer since I not into 1 yet~~ :P

People always ask what kind of girl do you like?? There are answers like MUST BE "Pretty"(too common answer =.=), tall and slim such of appearance looks answer~~ For girl, handsome, manly, masculine, some even have fatty choice ~.~ the imagination lover in everyone are as perfect as they can thought about~~

BUT!!! this IS reality~~~ imagination is just imagination after all~~~ I met many girls in the past, but truly not more than 1 gave me an instant love in first sight feeling, the only 1 was 11 and a half years ago~~ First sight, they were just common like others, no 1 ever reach the "requirement" in the appearance I wish for~~ after being together as friend for sometime, ya, it's wasn't just normal and simple friendship feeling~~ it become caring and liking instead~~ it's something I wouldn't expect when I first met them~~

this is where I realize, remind me of my first "love"(although nothing started, but still the 1 I love =X)~~ Friends always ask me why I like her?? Words like "She not pretty at all", "If it is me, I will never choose her", "She's not one-hearted, everyone knows it"~~~ Conclusion, not much of positive comments about her~~~ ~.~ ya, so?? I was fallen for her, mere harsh words doesn't even change my loving on her~~~

This is where I realize, "When love come, the appearance of the other half is not longer a requirement". well, first thing of all of course "Love" have to come first, if not this phrase doesn't work~~ XD

Ya, good appearance always give people a very first good inspiration~~ but, after sometime, the good looking 1 doesn't match your other requirements as knowing him/her more~~ Ya, I do have experience on this 1~~ XD right, someone I know??? =3